Same-sex Relationships for Girls

Some say being in love with someone you sex is just going against the laws of nature. But how many people really feel this way?

It’s not nowday’s invention. The first historical mention of the performance of same-sex marriages occurred during the early Roman Empire.

The word lesbian comes from the Greek Island of Lesbos, where the poet Sappho lived in 600 B.C. Sappho was an intellectual and poet who wrote many love poems to other women.

Today same-sex marriage is legal in Argentina, Belgium, Canada, Iceland, the Netherlands, Norway, Portugal, South Africa, Spain and Sweden. In Mexico, same-sex marriages are only performed in Mexico City, but these marriages must be recognized by all Mexican states. Israel does not recognize same-sex marriages performed on its territory, but recognizes same-sex marriages performed in foreign jurisdictions. In the United States, although same-sex marriages are not recognized federally, same-sex couples can marry in five states and one district (Connecticut, Iowa, Massachusetts, New Hampshire, Vermont, and the District of Columbia) and receive state-level benefits.

Society and religions have hindered the 10% of the population seeking same-gender relationships- it's not fair to limit their happiness, isn’t religions based on love and happiness? Plus some religions allow one to have more than one supposes. Isn’t that against the main law of love- it’s just for two?

Psychologist John Buss estimates that for most of human history, perhaps 2% of women have been lesbian or bisexual (see note 1, below). Not any more. Recent surveys of teenage girls and young women find that roughly 15% of young females today self-identify as lesbian or bisexual, compared with about 5% of young males who identify as gay or bisexual. How come girls make this choice?

It starts mostly in the teenage. If a teenage girl kisses another teenage girl, for whatever reason, and she finds that she likes it - then things can happen, and things can change. If a young woman finds her soulmate, and her soulmate happens to be female, then she may begin to experience feelings she's never felt before. Especially if all the guys she knows are losers.

A girl in a same-sex relationship, who used to be strait shares: "It was just such a welcome change, to snuggle under a blanket on the couch with my girlfriend, watch a movie, and talk about God and death and growing old, to be intimate emotionally and spiritually as well as physically. I don't know a guy who could even comprehend the conversations we have." Maybe a straight woman is just a woman who hasn't yet met - the right woman? That sounds bothering. Is it getting harder for men and women to understand and please each other? If we connect this fact to the fact that around 50% of the traditional marriages end up with divorce in the US?

There are lots of forms discussing advantages and disadvantages of lesbian relationships and most of the posts are very positive. Here are the advantages people say:

“Guys usually don't have a problem with it and find it hot.” Sometimes girls start lesbian flirt to attract boys’ attention. It happens that after that she focuses her attention to the girl.

“You don't have to worry about getting pregnant.”

“There are more ways to have sex and pleasure”. “women tend to want a real long lasting relationship unlike some men, the kisses feeling soft and tender- being on the same wavelength and knowledgeable about the female body.”

“People are people no matter what sex and emotions and everything else still come into play. It’s really just your personal preference what you are into. But relationships will always be the same whether is straight, gay, or lesbian.”

Some information taken from: http://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/sax-sex/201004/why-are-so-many-girls-lesbian-or-bisexual