Man’s point of view about beautiful women

By Henry Makow Ph.D.

At the mall my wife and I passed a 30-foot-high banner suspended from the ceiling. It didn't say "Obey." Rather it displayed a 19-year-old girl wearing nothing but a bikini.
"That makes women feel inadequate and insecure," my wife remarked.

While women cringe, men are supposed to pant and salivate. Thus, both sexes are programmed to seek a shallow and impossible ideal.

I could honestly tell my wife she needn't feel insecure on my account. These girls are great to look at but not worth the trouble. I used to be married to one and recorded the experience in my book, "A Long Way to go for Date."

My experience taught me to separate a woman's appearance from her character. Like many immature men, I used to idolize beautiful women. They ceased to be human beings.

Marilyn Monroe once said, "I always let men fool themselves. They were obviously loving someone I wasn't."
Women actually find pedestals uncomfortable. Soon they pity and resent the men who put them there. A producer married to a beautiful starlet said," I treat her as though she were ugly."

Men should never forfeit power by worshiping a woman. The essence of masculinity is power. Women crave male power, expressed as male love. When a woman falls in love, she surrenders "power" in exchange for love.

Men and women are equal in terms of dignity and self-fulfillment. But they do not find fulfillment in the same way. Women find it in self-surrender. By insisting on equal power, feminists emasculate men and neuter women. Their marriages remind me of roommates.

Boys are Needy. Men are Demanding

Gentlemen. The measure of a woman is not what she looks like but what she will do for you.

What good is a gorgeous woman if she makes your life hell? After the sex urge has abated, what else can she do? My ex couldn't master anything that wasn't also a natural function.

Men have been brainwashed to think they're evil ogres who must cater to women in exchange for love. That's what women do! Feminism has turned men into women. (I'm exaggerating when I use the term "cater.")

A feminine woman adjusts to the man she loves. She is yin to his yang. Men should seek feminine women in the ranks of pleasant or even plain-looking women. They have skills and personality. They are rational and decent. They don't think they are special and aren't so obsessed with their appearance.

Love makes a woman beautiful. Making love, you're looking at her face, not her body. If she loves you, her face is spectacular.

Source: http://www.thetruthseeker.co.uk/article.asp?ID=751

Be aware it's the season of depressions

To 15 percent of Bulgarians are suffering from various forms of depression, said Prof Vihra Milanova, head of the department of psychiatry at Alexandrovska hospital in Sofia. About 9 percent of them suffer from periodic depression or known biopolar affective disorder / manic and depression /
Depression is usually worsen in late October or November, and in late February and early March. In our latitudes, seasonal depression most often occur spring and autumn. "During these two seasons is transient exacerbation of existing depression or new onset of depression," explained Professor Milanova, quoted by BTA. The symptoms are depressed mood, loss of enjoyment of experiences, decreased energy, decreased concentration, slowed thinking, indecisiveness. Very often one of the first symptoms is insomnia. Depressive sleep is difficult, it is pulled sleep, wakes up early with the feeling that sleep is not in breach of his appetite is, losing weight. Depression in the autumn due to the reduction of the day and increasing the dark part of day at which physiological mechanism affected the mood. This is due to partial reduction of enzyme in the body melatonin, a hormone known as mood and sleep. Melatonin helps to maintain tone, good mood.

This violates seasons in which increased duration of the night - autumn and winter, usually in October and November. Therefore, the incidence of depression was highest in the Nordic countries.In countries south of the Equator, people suffer less from depression, explained the expert. Depression still average between three and six months, but if they seek medical help, these conditions can be overcome and for a short time, said Prof. Milanova. Women are more vulnerable to depression than men. The reasons for this are complex - hormonal, biological and emotional. Women much more painful response to stress. Most often, they developed depression after birth. Nearly half of the women shortly after delivery for different periods of time are experiencing depression, said a specialist.

Depression often develop people placed in socially disadvantaged - unemployed and surviving stress. Depressed person is important to realize that there is a problem and should seek its solution. He should also know that depression is a temporary condition and passes, said Professor Milanova. It is important that people be prepared for negative emotions, rather than fall into self-pity "why this is happening just to me. Our society is intolerant to people who have similar problems, thus avoiding the demand for specialized care, but must, "said Professor Milanova.

source: http://www.dnes.bg/health/2009/10/07/bylgarite-ne-si-priznavat-ako-sa-depresirani.78811

Photoshop- Before and After

Be aware if you're chatting with people you don't know. Photoshop is very good program that might be very useful for picture manipulating, but as you can see it can be used for people manipulating as well.

Lovers rate

A research says:

WORLD'S WORST LOVERS:

1. Germany (too smelly)

2. England (too lazy)

3. Sweden (too quick)

4. Holland (too dominating)

5. America (too rough)

6. Greece (too lovey-dovey)

7. Wales (too selfish)

8. Scotland (too loud)

9. Turkey (too sweaty)

10. Russia (too hairy)

WORLD'S BEST LOVERS

1. Spain

2. Brazil

3. Italy

4. France

5. Ireland

6. South Africa

7. Australia

8. New Zealand

9. Denmark

10. Canada

Quotes for women

"Act Like A Lady, Think Like A Man."

"Whatever you give a woman, she will make greater. If you give her sperm, she'll give you a baby. If you give her a house, she'll give you a home. If you give her groceries, she'll give you a meal. If you give her a smile, she'll give you her heart. She multiplies and enlarges what is given to her. So, if you give her any crap, be ready to receive a ton of sh*t."

The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think.

Women are like tea bags, You never know how strong they really areuntil you put them in hot water.

Women are like apples on trees. The best ones are at the top of the tree. The men don't want to reach for the good ones because they are afraid of falling and getting hurt. Instead, they just get the rotten apples from the ground that aren't as good, but easy.So the apples at the top think something is wrong with them, when in reality, THEY'RE amazing. They just have to wait for the right man to come along, the one who's brave enough to climb all the way to the top of the tree.

What she really says

-We need = I want

-It's your decision = The correct decision should be obvious by now.

-Do what you want = You'll pay for this later.

-We need to talk = I need to complain

-Sure... go ahead = I don't want you to.

-I'm not upset = Of course I'm upset, you moron!

-I'm not emotional! And I'm not overreacting! = I'm on my period.

-Do you love me? = I'm going to ask for something expensive.

-How much do you love me?= I did something today you're really not going to like.

-I'll be ready in a minute = Kick off your shoes and find a good game on T.V.

-Is my butt fat? = Tell me I'm beautiful.

-You have to learn to communicate = Just agree with me.

-Are you listening to me!? = [Too late, you're dead.]

-Yes = No

-No = No

-Maybe = No

-I'm sorry = You'll be sorry.

-I'm not yelling! = Yes I am yelling because I think this is important.

My new hair colour

My new me in one of my favourite dresses, it comes from the other side of the world... Oh, I cant get used that dark haired girls is me....

Blond or brunette?

I just changed my hair colour and I feel very strange... staring at the mirror and trying to realize did I do a mistake? What if people don't like me now? But my natural hair is dark, so I guess it was time to stop being fake :P (But I'll still wear colour contacts sometimes).
So I did a little research what people think about women hair colour and I found out that:

It must be true, because the survey was done by hair product company:
Who makes the best lovers?

Blondes 26%
Redheads/gingers 22%
Light brown hairs 20%
Brunettes 10%
Other 22%

I wanted to redeem brunettes so I did some more research... and if it doesn't have to do with sex, then brunettes often rate higher than blondes.

• 71 per cent of men saying they prefer women with darker hair for long-term relationships
• 76 per cent of people think brunettes are the most intelligent women
• A quarter of men rated them as the most confident lovers
• 81 per cent of those surveyed naming brunettes as the most genuine
• 66 per cent [said brunettes were] the least moody
  

But as mentioned above, blondes are widely considered to be the best lovers... and 37% of men would prefer to have an affair with a blonde. Redheads are second, which means brunettes are in third.

So I won't be a preferred for a lover any more. But I guess man will like me more for a girlfriend to have a serious relationship with:P I think it works for me!

Here are my pictures as a blond and brunette.

Five Signs for Detecting a Liar

Being a human lie detector is not a difficult thing. You simply need to understand the tale-tell signs and tactics that are inherent of every liar. Here are five basic signs that are common to most liars:

1. They relax and become happier when you change the subject
A matter regarding which a person has good cause to feel guilty will cause them to be tense and have anxious. If you think that they are being deceptive while talking about a certain subject, then you should switch topics to something different and watch how they react to the change.
If they suddenly appear to be more happy and relaxed, then this can be a sign that they were trying to be deceptive before you switched the topics.

2. They stall for more time
People who are sure of themselves or honest will usually have an honest answer for an honest question and it will come to them with little thinking involved.
Not true with the liar. When a liar is caught off guard, they require time to formulate a response that sounds legitimate. Therefore, they might employ a stall tactic to buy more time.
One commonly used way a liar buys more time is by employing rhetorical questions such as: "Can you repeat the question?", "What do you think?", "Could you be more specific?"-or they repeat the same question back to you.
Recognize these kinds of questions as delay tactics, used to buy more time to create a believable lie.

3. They use absolutes
Absolutes should be a red flag to you when a person is trying to be deceptive, because absolutes are most often lies in and of themselves.
Absolutes are words like, "always," "never", "everytime", "everyone". Listen carefully for absolutes because they are used in two main functions: when the person is trying to persuade you to do something, or when they are getting defensive about something they did.
It’s a known fact of life that there are no absolutes. Even the cleanest person has gotten their hands dirty at one point. No one is perfect and we learn from our mistakes
That is why absolutes are often associated with deceptive behavior - because they are untrue to begin with.

4. They don't defend their honor
When a person is faced with a false accusation, the normal tendency is to become outraged and react aggressively towards that accusation because it's an attack on their reputation and their honor - both of which an individual has a psychological need to defend. "How dare you say that to me!" would be a typical honest response to a false accusation.
The liar, however, will not protest the accusation, but rather be focusing more on what to tell you in an effort not to sound as guilty. They might use stall tactics such as blurting out a "NO..." and then pausing to follow it up with some type of rational explanation.

5. They use "Just kidding!"
While most of us use the phrase, "Just Kidding", as a common part of our conversation to playfully jest at another person, there is a psychological aspect to this phrase. "Just kidding" is a minimizer phrase, meaning that it downplays the harshness of what was said before it.
Even if we are innocently joking, there is at least some partial truth in what we just said, otherwise we wouldn’t have said it in the first place. We then slap on the minimizing phrase, "Just kidding" as a way to show the other person that it was "all in good fun".
It might be all in good fun, but remember that when someone says this phrase, they probably believe in what they said previously - at least a little.

source: http://www.hodu.com/liar.shtml

Life expectancy could reach 100

Looks like our children will have enough time to complete a lot in their life :)
We're alwyas on rush for something, because we don't have enough time, I really hope 100 years will be enough for everything, so next generation won't live in such stress and rush.


Life expectancy could reach 100
More than half of babies born in affluent homes can expect to live to 100 if current life expectancy trends continue, it has been claimed.
Experts made the prediction in a review of the latest research evidence in The Lancet medical journal.
They pointed out that huge increases in life expectancy, amounting to more than 30 years, had been seen in most developed countries during the course of the 20th century.
Death rates in nations with the longest life-spans, such as Japan, Sweden and Spain, suggest that even if health conditions do not improve three quarters of babies will live to 75.
But assuming that present trends continue, most of those born in well-off parts of the world since 2000 were likely to celebrate their 100th birthdays.

Data from more than 30 developed countries showed that in 1950 the probability of living from 80 to 90 was 15% for women and 12% for men. In 2002, these figures had risen to 37% and 25% respectively.

Source: http://www.ananova.com/news/story/sm_3506761.html

The ugly truth :(

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Let's talk about men

1. There are two types of males: Dishonorable males and honorable men. Don’t date or marry until you know how to tell the difference between the two! The woman in the mirror will graciously thank you.
2. Honorable men are protectors. They will guard your heart, protect your emotions, defend your honor and stand as champions for your spiritual, mental and physical well-being; choose an honorable man and choose life!

3. You are not a car; if you meet a man who wants to test drive your physical body, emotions and feelings, point him to a car dealership, bid him adieu and don’t look back!

4. This is a true saying: “The soul of a woman is fragile.” Please note: dishonorable males refuse to respect this crucial truth. They will toy with a woman’s emotions without any semblance of concern or compassion. Therefore YOU must guard your heart from these cold-hearted males with all diligence.

5. Good men need to be treated like good men, dishonorable males, need to be let go and left alone!

6. OK ladies; you’ve met this great guy, but he’s got a child or children for which he does not take care of, provide for or see to. Follow these instructions to the letter: urgently send him back to the mother(s) of his child(ren) and don’t look back. Don’t make the same mistake the mother(s) of his child(ren) did!

7. Dishonorable males treat sex as a sport, females as trophies and children they sire as wastepaper. Never allow yourself to become their next score, mantle piece or sperm repository.

8. Women who hold grudges, seek vengeance, cling to bitterness and are unwilling to forgive, unwittingly break their own hearts!

9. Choose the wrong mate and you might as well have laid next to a boa constrictor or grabbed the ears of a raging mad pit bull. A smart woman learns how to choose her mate wisely!

10. Heed the sage advice of some caring brothers and honorable men. If he doesn’t fit - don’t force him, just relax and let him go. Destiny is on your side… TRUE LOVE will find you!

11. Momma’s boys belong with only one type of woman; their moms! Ladies, these mothers and their sons will never cut their grotesque umbilical cord. Therefore, for your sake, leave them alone and just let them trot home to their mommies.

12. Self-love: if you don’t have it, pull yourself off the market. Make no mistake about it, if you don’t love yourself, NO MAN can ever love you… no matter how great a man he is.

13. Don’t judge ALL men by one man’s actions; unless you want ALL men to judge you based on the acts of amoral women.

14. Most women learn how to choose a mate the hard way; they go through a gut wrenching string of emotionally detached males, jerks, pimps, thugs and players. Don’t become one of those heart broken and bitter women! Learn how to properly choose a mate before it’s too late! The woman in the mirror will graciously thank you.

15. You wondering, “If I move in with him, is he going to marry me?” Answer: “Not likely!” Don’t believe it, take these two critical tests: (a). Ask any honorable man! And, (b). Examine the ever-growing list of disillusioned women who are begrudgingly waiting for their non-committal live-in lovers to pop the big question.

16. You are not a man! Therefore, you will never be: a role model for men, a father figure, a man’s mentor or a man’s coach. If a man has lacked proper male leadership in his life, kindly send him on his way. Know for a certainty; he is not prepared for the responsibilities that come with love, sex, relationship and marriage.

17. Don’t ever delude yourself! Your beauty, fine body, sexual prowess, cooking skills, femininity and vibrant personality will never be enough to change a man, NEVER!

18. If your potential mate does such things as: promises to call you but doesn’t, makes dates and breaks them, shows up late or plays games with your emotions; take notes ladies... those are clear cut warning signs that he DOES NOT value you, he DOES NOT love you and he DOES NOT care about you!

19. A fundamental understanding and respect of the male ego is a must for all women who want a vibrant and healthy love; DO NOT obtain this crucial information from dishonorable males or from angry bitter women.

20. If you choose to be with dishonorable males, pimps, players, thugs, ballers and shot callers, you have absolutely no right to complain when they torch your emotions, abuse you, leave you pregnant and alone, jeopardize your safety and otherwise harm or hurt you. Remember, you have freedom of choice and you chose to be with them!

21. When a man is trying to find himself, kindly bid him adieu… PERMANENTLY! He can find you, but can’t find himself? He shouldn’t be looking for love… he should be searching for the map to Mastering Manhood!

22. Spoiled women are like spoiled milk, spoiled meat, spoiled fruit spoiled bread and spoiled brats. Get the picture? Don’t become a spoiled woman!

23. Expecting a dishonorable male to do the honorable thing is like expecting piranhas not to devour you if you make the mistake of diving into their water.

24. You’ve asked these questions, “Why doesn’t he call me more often? Why doesn’t he pursue me more diligently and why doesn’t he show me that he loves me?” Answer; he’s not into you! If you don’t let him go and move on with your life, you will allow him to hinder or block your true love from finding you!

25. Some males like to hit women. It gives them a sense of power and control. If you give yourself to one of these abusive males, most assuredly you will become a punching bag and a floor mat. It is critical that you learn how to detect and avoid these cretins!

26. Never allow emotionally embittered women to influence you concerning the male gender. If you do, their hatred and unforgiveness will become yours. Soon you will find yourself suspicious, indignant and angry at all men.

27. You were not designed, built or destined for abuse, whether: emotionally, physically or financially. If he is an abuser, there is no need to deliberate… he IS NOT the one; leave him now!

28. Some women live their lives vicariously through the women on “Girlfriends, Sex In The City and Desperate Housewives.” Don’t become one of these women. If you do, you will make a literal mess of your life, emotions, physical body and well-being.

29. When a man truly loves you, he will honor and respect you. If he doesn't… don’t deceive yourself and don’t allow him to defraud you; he DOES NOT love OR care about you!

30. There is a vast difference between sex and love. Most men know the difference and you had better learn it fast! If you fail or refuse to do so, you are surely headed for relationship or marital crash and burn.

31. Don’t deceive yourself, once you have sex with a man who is not your boyfriend… he may never admit it, but he has lost a degree of respect for you. Don’t believe it? Ask any honorable man or virtuous woman.

32. The dismal cycle of breaking up and making up only works out in the romance novels, television shows and movies. If you are riding that emotional roller coaster get off right now! Your heart, mind and soul will forever thank you.

33. Nothing is more beautiful, captivating, attractive and sensual than a woman with a gentle and peaceable spirit!