City Park in Madrid

It's beautiful. We took a long walk in this park and we didn't forget to stop for an ice cream :)

Silly me:

World's most expensive purse

Made out of platinum and set with over 2,000 diamonds - totalling 208 carats - the petite clutch is the ultimate accessory for the woman who has everything.

But if its price tag seems a little steep, prospective buyers should bear in mind that the bag is nothing if not versatile.

Its diamond-encrusted strap can be detatched and worn as a necklace or bracelet and it also features an eight carat pear-shaped diamond that can be worn separately as a brooch.

The bag was created by Japenese designer Ginza Tanaka.

It is valued at more than £1 million and is the showpiece of London Jewellery Week, which is sponsored by private bank Coutts.

The bag will go on display at a number of stores across the capital before being sold, but organisers have not disclosed which shops will get the honour of hosting the handbag.

London Jewellery Week runs from June 11-15.

Original link: http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/newstopics/howaboutthat/2118092/Worlds-most-expensive-handbag-unveiled.html

Things we'll never forget

“I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.”

It's something I'll never forget because it made me feel special and very happy. It was like a late celebration of my birthday. After a great day I found that waiting for me on the bed. Inside I found something very beautiful that I have on me every day. No matter how bad day I have when I look at my present I smile.

THANK YOU!

Madrid Botanical Garden

On the first day of our vacation in Madrid we were too tired for sightseeing. That's why we just took a relaxing walk. A part of it was the botanical garden.

Birth control pill approved 50 years ago

On 9 May 1960 the United States Food and Drug Administration approved the world's first birth control pill, a drug that has reshaped the cultural landscape in much of the world. The Pill allowed women to explore sexuality for the first time without fear of unwanted pregnancy. The anniversary invites a look at the questions surrounding oral contraception. One question for the anniversary is why, 50 years on, science has come up with a potency pill for men but not a male birth control pill.

Debate continues to rage on the Pill's health effects. In addition to worrisome side effects such as weight gain and nausea, the use of the Pill has been linked to a greater incidence of blood-clotting disorders. Researchers are also exploring possible links between hormonal contraceptives and cancer, infertility and sexual dysfunction.

Though health risks remain, the Pill has been widely accepted as the most satisfactory method of contraception, in part because of ease of use. By 2002, according to the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention, 11.6 million American women were on the Pill, making it the nation's leading method of contraception. Research published in January in the Journal of the American College of Cardiology says that oral contraceptives have been used by about 80 percent of women in the United States at some point in their lives.

Development of impotence drugs, such as Cialis, Viagra and Levitra, have delivered blockbuster profits to the world's big drug companies. The absence of a birth control pill for men suggests the drugmakers have decided it would be a bad investment risk. China has come the closest to a Pill for men with a birth control injection that is producing promising test results.

Conditions were not propitious in the United States for the development of the Pill. In In 1873, the US Congress passed the Comstock Law, which forbade all forms of contraception. Margaret Sanger's advocacy of birth control helped, indirectly to bring funding to the researcher credited with the development of the oral contraceptive, Gregory Pincus in 1951. Nine years later, Enovid - the first Pill was approved. Four years after the FDA approved the Pill, the US Supreme Court struck down the Comstock law.

Original link: http://www.newsahead.com/preview/2010/05/09/united-states-9-may-2010-birth-control-pill-approved-50-years-ago/index.php

Arguments in a Relationship- Inevitable When People are Close

Anyone who has been in a close relationship with another person has most likely been in an argument with that person. Disagreement is a part of any healthy relationship, but it can also be destructive to a relationship if the disagreement is dealt with in a non-productive manner. Frustration is normal, no two people are exactly alike, but learning how to appropriately vent that frustration without hurting the other person or yourself can be difficult. In order to better understand proper ways to deal with relationship conflict, you must first recognize the communication techniques that can be destructive to a relationship.

Destructive Communication Method #1: Avoiding the Argument
While some people live for a good debate, many others hate to argue. They avoid a potential argument like the plague and do anything they can to steer their relationship away from any conflict. Often, those who try to stay away from disagreements end up sacrificing their own desires and needs in order to keep everything copasetic. This avoidance can be very destructive to any relationship.

Just because you ignore something that is bothering you doesn’t mean it is going to just go away. The frustration you are hiding will eat away at you and cause you more stress than the brief argument that might have occurred if you brought the topic up to your partner. Covering up problems can result in two scenarios: an unsatisfying relationship or a blowout fight.

The first scenario may not happen overnight, but can build over time. If you are legitimately bothered by something that your relationship partner is doing but you don’t tell them about it, they will most likely continue to do whatever is bothering you. You will find yourself constantly frustrated with your relationship partner, hoping that they will change but not doing anything to help them change. Eventually you will become dissatisfied with the relationship. Yes, if you voice your opinions about what is bothering you, it may spark an argument, but at least your partner will know it is a problem and the two of you have the potential to work together to overcome that problem.

In the second scenario, minor frustrations that are suppressed will eventually build up until you get overwhelmed and end up getting very angry with your partner. It may be a small little frustration that finally sets you off but, with all of your built up anger, you end up lashing out at your partner, leaving them hurt and confused. Your partner is left wondering why such a small issue made you so angry, not knowing that you anger stems from a bunch of suppressed frustrations.

Voicing your legitimate frustrations is necessary in order to alleviate those problems. A small argument might be worth a lifetime of internal stress and unhappy relationships.

Destructive Communication Method #2: Nagging and Nitpicking
While it is important to voice your frustrations, it is also important to first make sure that you have a valid argument. When in a relationship it is important to “choose your battles”. To avoid sticking your foot in your mouth, make sure you are complaining about something that does justify the argument it may bring.

It is easy to get very comfortable with your partner and feel you can call him or her on every little flaw they have or mistake they make. Because you are so close to each other, you feel you can speak openly, but, often, you may inadvertently be hurting your partner or your relationship. Examine the reasons why something is bothering you and, if you feel the reasons are valid then it may be worth brining it to your partner’s attention. However, if you get into a habit of nagging your partner about every little thing that bothers you, you are brining unnecessary arguments into the relationship.

How would you feel if your partner was constantly telling you “Why didn’t you call me the second you got home? Don’t you love me?” or “Don’t look at that other girl, I consider that cheating!” Not only are these invalid, over exaggerated statements that will usually start an unnecessary argument, but they are also clear windows into your own insecurity and can make you less attractive in the eyes of your partner. Your partner may begin to “walk on eggshells” around you if you are constantly getting on his or her case about every little thing.

If something bugs you but you know it is just a personal preference and not the fault of the other person, try voicing your problem in a way that will not automatically anger the other person or make him or her defensive. If you don’t like your partner’s new hairstyle, don’t say “I hate your hair” (fighting words for many image-conscious people) say “This new haircut is fun and funky, but your previous haircut really brought out the beauty in your facial features more.” This way you are not just nagging, yet you are expressing your preference.

Destructive Communication Method #3: Hurting in the Heat of the Moment
If you do begin to argue it is vitally important that you choose your words carefully. Once something has been said, it can never be erased from memory. Because of this, try your best not to get overheated during an argument; you might say something you truly regret.

It doesn’t help anyone in an argument when someone starts name-calling. Don’t let yourself get so angry that you start calling your partner hurtful names like “stupid” or “ugly”. Never use the term “hate”. You don’t really hate anything about your partner; if you did you would not be in a relationship with them. Hate can be one of the most destructive words used in an argument and insults can hurt the one you love even when you don’t really mean them.

When you feel yourself getting really angry, it is perfectly ok to pause, take a breath, and think about what you really want to say rather than what your defenses want you to say. If you and your partner find yourselves blowing your arguments out of proportion often, take some time during one of your good conversations to figure out ways to solve your argument problems. Perhaps you need to agree that if either of you say “time out” in the middle of your argument, you both have to go into separate rooms for a couple of minutes to reevaluate your argument and calm down.

Once destructive communication methods are recognized it is easier to understand your own feelings. Avoiding destructive ways of arguing (or not arguing for that matter) and promoting healthy ways to work through disagreements can greatly improve your relationship satisfaction and, in turn, help you build a more solid foundation in your relationship.

Original lik:
Communicating More Effectively During Arguments By Kim Lance, NEWSdial.com contributor

Love and Friendship

Once upon a time, love and friendship met. Love asked, Why do you exist when I already exist? Friendship smiled and said :
To put a smile where you leave tears...

A Point of View- The Benefits of Arranged Marriage

Arranged marriage is an old custom which used to be practiced by royal and aristocratic families around the world. Nowadays, arranged marriages are still customary in India, Africa and, to some extent, in the Middle East.

Love Marriage Versus Arranged Marriage

While love marriages are usually associated with romance, love at first sight and personal freedom, arranged marriages are mostly centered around building a family, adjustment between the partners and regard for the wishes of one’s family and religion. Love is believed to grow with time by living together and adjusting to each other’s personality rather than being a product of passionate attraction. This article examines the benefits of having an arranged marriage.

Arranged Marriages and Family Values

One of the merits of arranged marriage is its focus on family values. Since the wishes of parents and family members are considered or even followed when choosing a partner, there will be less danger of quarrel and discord within the family. Above all, arranged marriages are less about passion and romance and more about starting a family.

While the relationship between husband and wife may not be as romantic and passionate as in love marriages, there might be more satisfaction from family life. In arranged marriages, children are mostly regarded as the main source of emotional satisfaction. So there is less focus on one’s partner and less unrealistic expectations. Furthermore, there are no children conceived or born out of wedlock.

The Spiritual Benefits of Arranged Marriage

In general, arranged marriages are not about romance or superficial attraction and more about leading a balanced family life. The relative absence of passion tends to make it easier to focus on spiritual practices. Often, marriage is seen as a way of pleasing God or adhering to moral values rather than focusing on sexual and romantic satisfaction.

Original article: http://marriage.suite101.com/article.cfm/the_benefits_of_having_an_arranged_marriage

5 Simple Things Women Want

Respect. Show us through your actions that you respect our opinions, careers, interests, friends, bodies and minds. You don't have to agree with all that we say or do, but try to honor our opinions as valuable contributions. Follow the golden rule and treat us as you would like to be treated: Be honest, fair, kind, and considerate.

Sex. Yes, we love sex. But, remember that there are four bases to cover in the bedroom, not just one. Try stopping at each base instead of being so focused on the home run—believe us, we'll thank you for it! Likewise, remember small physical touches like massages. One can never, ever, have too many shoulder rubs. And scratching our heads is pretty great, too.

Romance. Light a few candles and see where the night leads. Treat us like your girlfriend, even after we become your wife. All of the things that made us fall in love with you don't have to stop just because now there are bills to pay, a house to be cleaned... Bring home flowers for no reason.

Communication. Women are vocal creatures. We know you love us, but it's nice to hear you say it, too. We can also be insecure. We wish we weren't, but the reality is that we often notice our wobbly thighs and forget about our gorgeous eyes. So let us know when you think we're hot. Tell us we're beautiful. It helps us feel good. Plus, when we feel sexy we're more likely to act sexy.

Consistency. This doesn't mean be boring and predictable. It means that we know you will (usually, no one is perfect!) give us the love and support we need. Knowing that you're coming at this with the same desires and energy as we are goes a long way to making us feel secure.

Article taken from:
http://www.yourtango.com/200925879/10-simple-things-women-want/page/3

Beautiful Eye Make-Up

Quotes for women

Women cannot complain about men anymore until they start getting better taste in them. ~Bill Maher

Every girl should use what Mother Nature gave her before Father Time takes it away. ~Laurence J. Peter

The average woman would rather have beauty than brains, because the average man can see better than he can think. ~Author Unknown

Women get the last word in every argument. Anything a man says after that is the beginning of a new argument. ~Author Unknown

The rarest thing in the world is a woman who is pleased with photographs of herself. ~Elizabeth Metcalf

Howiver, I'm not denyin' the women are foolish: God Almighty made 'em to match the men. ~George Eliot

Women keep a special corner of their hearts for sins they have never committed. ~Cornelia Otis Skinner

If women didn't exist, all the money in the world would have no meaning. ~Aristotle Onassis

Men really prefer reasonably attractive women; they go after the sensational ones to impress other men. ~Mignon McLaughlin

I'd rather have two girls at seventeen than one at thirty-four. ~Fred Allen

A woman should soften but not weaken a man. ~Sigmund Freud

No woman wants to see herself too clearly. ~Mignon McLaughlin

A man gives many question marks, however, a woman is a whole mystery. ~Diana Stürm

In passing, also, I would like to say that the first time Adam had a chance he laid the blame on woman. ~Nancy Astor

I would rather trust a woman's instinct than a man's reason. ~Stanley Baldwin

Men look at themselves in mirrors. Women look for themselves. ~Elissa Melamed

Let us leave the beautiful women to men with no imagination. ~Marcel Proust

Women deserve to have more than twelve years between the ages of twenty-eight and forty. ~James Thurber

A man is as good as he has to be, and a woman is as bad as she dares. ~Elbert Hubbard

Women prefer chocolate to sex

British women would rather have chocolate than wine, designer cosmetics and sex, says new research.
It is the ultimate guilty pleasure, with 2.3 million admitting that they have the sweet treat at least three times a day, reports express.co.uk.
A third of women confess that they dream about chocolate during the day compared with only 18 per cent who think about sex.
In contrast, six in 10 men have sex on their minds for most of the day and 11 per cent think about chocolate.
More than one in five women say that they would kiss goodbye to their sex lives before chocolate.
The study of 2,000 women was carried out by cereal bar firm Fibre Plus.
Spokeswoman of the firm Sally Tribe said: "Women turn to chocolate for comfort or to cheer themselves up. For many, it never disappoints".

original link: http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/life/relationships/man-woman/Women-prefer-chocolate-to-sex/articleshow/5855363.cms

Jerry- my sister's cat

My sister and her friend have a cat- Jerry. When I go to their apartment I play with him much. He's so silly and playful. Last night he was very excited of my bunny shaped slippers.

I wish I had a kitty at home too. Here's the breed I like most

Married for 27 Years! Congrats, Mom and Dad!

Yesterday it was my parent's 27th anniversary. They got married so young, my mom was 19 and my dad 27 after only three months dating.
Congratulations for being married so long, going through the problems, forgiving each other and us. I'm so glad to see you happy together day after day! Love you!

“Life is short, have an affair”- encourage cheaters and take their money

When Ashley Madison, a social networking site for married people looking to have affairs, put up a billboard in Times Square, the owners of the building across the way threatened to burn it down. Soon major news teams like Fox were reporting on the complaints the advertisement stirred up among offended passersbys. By Thursday, July 24, only three days after it went up, the billboard was removed.

According to CEO Noel Biderman, who spoke from his office in Toronto, Ashley Madison's users have more than doubled in the last year. He admits that's due in part to media fodder from PR stunts like the Times Square billboard, which he says has aroused massive interest.

Was Biderman angry his billboard got taken down? His response: “Disappointed but not deterred.” He’s also quick to point out, “There’s absolutely nothing illegal in what we do. We offer freedom of choice.” Biderman has a point: “I don’t think a billboard is going to convince you to commit adultery. It just makes you aware of our service. People come to us because we offer them a lack of judgment. Step back and look at marriage and divorce rates. Monogamy is obviously up for debate.”

“This isn’t a question of race, or socio-economic class, or even gender,” he says. “Monogamy isn’t in people’s DNA, even if it’s still best for raising a family.” By Biderman’s calculations, the average man on Ashley Madison is in his late 30s or early 40s and has been married seven years, while the average woman is in her late 20s or early 30s and has only been married two. “The wedding passes, the bubble bursts, and women have fewer options,” he speculates for why female users turn more quickly to cheating. In general, the site tries hard to attract women, who only make up 30% of its user base.

Payment of $249 entitles the customer to participation in the "affair guarantee program," which pledges you to find "someone" within three months or your money back. To ensure that you keep up your end of the bargain, you must set up an attractive profile with photo, send at the very least 60 priority mail messages to different members, send five Ashley gifts, and engage in at least 180 minutes of instant messaging during that timeframe.

taken from: http://www.villagevoice.com/2008-08-19/columns/life-is-short-have-an-affair-new-york/

Swimwear for Muslims

A model presents swimwear for Muslims during the Islamic Fashion Fair in Istanbul.
Just for information how the other people live.

Facts from Disney's fairy tales

Beauty and the Beast:

- Even if he looks like a beast, he wants a beauty

- Beauties fall in love with rich beasts

- Every rich and handsome man hurt at least one woman who crusted him.

- Women are always confused if they’re in love or no.

Little Mermaid

- If you save his life, it’s not a reason he won’t leave you for another woman

- Men fall in love with women who don’t speak

- Don’t make deals because of love

- The happy end is not the original ending of the story

- Women are ready to change their physical appearance because of men

Cinderella

- Every housekeeper dreams of a prince

- If u want to make him fall in love with u, don’t stay whole night long on the first date

- Ugly women are evil

Sleeping Beauty

- You’d rather be sleeping beauty than awake ugly

- Being too curious gets you in troubles

- Patience will be rewarded