Sunday, March 14, 2010

Love is a seek and hide game


Love is a seek and hide game, isn’t it? Always the one is seeking and the other one is hiding to keep the game of love going on.

- First stage - Flirting

At first men seeks, woman hides. She spots her and start flirting. She’s pretending to be unapproachable to make the hunter put more efforts, but she gives him some hints to go on. He calls her, asks for dates and she says “May be”.

- Second stage – First night together

After having sex for a first time gave turns over, he seeks and she hides. He made a score and got her. She believed he likes her and gave him what he wanted. She wants the flirt become a relationship and he’s not sure about it.

- Third stage – Start of a relationship

He realizes she’s amazing, caring, understanding and a hot lover, so he’ll give her what she wants- commitment. He seeks, she hides. She’s tired making him commit and asks herself if he’s the right one, she’s looking around to see what else’s on market. He wants to impress her, to make her his girl.

- Fourth stage – Serious relationship

Relationship is granted for him. He get used having her and forgets to be romantic, caring, spending time with her. She’s trying to make relationship interesting, but he’s interested more in having beer with friends, watch football or just be busy. She seeks, he hides.

- Fifth stage – She leaves

She gets sick and tired to be the one who makes the relationship, to asks for his time and attention. So she leaves. Soon he realizes what he lost and wants her back. He gives promises, asks for forgiveness- he seeks, she hides. And the game starts over again!

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